How long should we wait to be married and have a baby?

That's a really hard question, and one you'll really need to decide for yourself. My own personal experience, I've been married 2 years. My husband and I had been together a year before we were married, and I found out I was pregnant about 2 weeks later! Sometimes it seems like the most perfect timing possible; other times, I wonder if we shouldn't have taken things more slowly. It hasn't been easy; a lot of the time it's really, really hard. But there are rough patches whether you date for 6 months or 6 years before getting married, and whenever you decide to have a baby. When the time seems right to you, go for it. Life's too short for missed opportunities.